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Kiss that annoying nighttime cough GOODBYE!

MIRACLE IN A JAR!

We’ve all experienced it.. you’ve got a cold, bronchitis, etc.. you may start feeling better, but that nagging dry cough, tickle in your throat keeps you from sleeping at night… not to mention your significant other may be secretly plotting your death from the other side of the bed due to your constant hacking… Well, I have read about this trick several times online over the past year or so, and thought, “No way.. it can’t possibly be that simple.” Well, let me tell you IT WORKS!!!

The trick:

Rub Vicks Vapor Rub on the soles of your feet and then cover with a pair of socks before getting into bed at night.

I was desperate last night.. I grabbed an old bottle of Vicks that I’ve had since Lane was a baby.. didn’t even know if it was expired or not, but it’s all I had. Much to my amazement… I did not cough one single time after slapping this stuff on my feet.  Not sure why it works, but it does.

The next time you or your kiddos are coughing at night, try it.. you’ll be a happy camper and so will they.

It’s that simple.. all the years I’ve suffered.. all the sleepless nights.. who knew?

I’ve Got A Beef…

 

Ok, just warning you now.. I’m getting ready to go on a rant.  A year ago this past September, my Mom was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast cancer.  (I know the ‘c’ should be capitalized, but I refuse to show cancer that respect)  After a lumpectomy, several rounds of chemo, and radiation she is now cancer free.  Thank God!  The diagnosis alone is terrifying.  Then, you set out to learn as much as possible about this horrible disease.  Time and again, when you search ‘Triple Negative’, you will see it described at the ‘DEADLIEST FORM OF BREAST CANCER‘.  I used all caps because that’s exactly how it jumps out at you from the page.  Ok, we know any form of cancer is potentially deadly. Duh. Yes, Triple Negative is a faster growing type, that leaves the doctors with fewer treatment options.. mainly chemo and radiation.. but it is VERY responsive to both of those things.  Granted, it’s a rarer form, and has a higher rate of recurrence, but that is hardly a death sentence.  Don’t get me wrong.. I am absolutely not one of those people who wants all bad news coated in a nice layer of sugar.. but really?  I wish the people who write these articles would stop and consider the woman who has just been given this diagnosis.. each and every case is different and the last thing you want to see when you set out to learn about this horrible diagnosis is ‘deadliest’.

Where I’m From…

A friend of mine… my sista from anotha mista, if you will, did a blog post that I absolutely loved.. so I thought I would give it a shot.  You can see her blog HERE.

 

I’m from the smell of fried chicken at Grandmother’s on a Sunday afternoon.

I’m from Shawnee Wolves Football on a Friday night.

I’m from peddling until your legs were sore, while riding bikes on washboard roads.

I’m from folded notes passed in hallways.

I’m from the sweet smell of fresh picked honeysuckle at Summertime.

I’m from friends you’ve had since birth because your parents have been friends just as long.

I’m from small towns with big dreams.

I’m from lightning bugs in mason jars because they make the best night lights.

I’m from late nights with best friends, and giggling while talking about boys.

I’m from cousins playing football in the yard after a great meal at Christmas.

I’m from 1 cent bubble gum at Ben Frankin’s.

I’m from graduating high school, thinking about how great it is.. only to realize you have no idea how good you had it.

I’m from cool breezes and driving down dirt roads.

I’m from Grandma’s amazing biscuits and gravy….. and her Coke Ham on Thanksgiving.

I’m from Bob’s Roll-A-Way Rink, skates with hot pink wheels, and band aids on blistered toes.

I’m from thinking you’re cool jamming to New Kids on the Block at Eufaula Lake, while working on a tan.

I’m from tractors on the ‘main’ roads.

I’m from “I love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck”.

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Little Boy Is Growing Up…

Pass the tissues… my little boy is almost GROWN. Ok, well not really… but it sure seems that way. I can honestly say that I did not cry on his first day of Pre-K.  He was so excited to be starting school and making friends, that I couldn’t be anything but happy for him.  It didn’t hurt that it was only for a few hours a day and kept telling myself that “it wasn’t ‘real‘ school”….  so I’m really NOT turning loose of my boy just yet. Today was a different story completely! I blubbered like a baby watching the video of all the kiddos throughout the year with the sappy songs playing, like ‘let them be little’ and ‘thank God for kids’… yep, blubbering FOOL!

This year has literally flown by.. and it really has me thinking that tomorrow I will be attending his high school graduation. That causes the tears to flow and my chest to tighten… Hold on, I feel a panic attack coming on………………………………………

 

 

Ok, I’m back.  I’ll be the first to admit that I never saw this coming.  I was so proud of myself and the way I handled him going to ‘not real‘ school…. but here’s the problem… Next year he will be gone ALL DAY long.  What will I do?

As a Mother, I worry about everything under the sun.  What if he needs help going to the bathroom?  What if he doesn’t remember to wash his hands?  What if he gets a tummy ache and they can’t get a hold of me?  What if he is being bullied by some big ole’ meanie?  What if…? You see where I’m going with this.  I’m sure it is the same stuff that Mothers have worried about for generations.  I guess this is the beginning of learning to let go and trusting that what you have taught them so far will be put to use.

I am so thankful for Lane’s Pre-K teacher.  She really is a wonderful example of everything a teacher should be.  Lane absolutely loves her, as do I.  It takes a special person to do what she does, and she does it with such enthusiasm… you can tell that she really cares about each and every child that she teaches.  Lane has learned so much this year, and has grown beyond my imagination.  She really is responsible for him loving school as much as he does.

So here’s to the ending of one adventure… and the beginning of another.. and as they sang today “Kindergarten here we come, we know we’ll have lots of fun!”

Very touching story.. especially for dog lovers.

(I don’t know if this is a true story.. doesn’t really matter to me either way. It’s too touching not to share)

They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes and a sealed letter from his previous owner.

See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too.
Maybe we were too much alike.

I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that. “Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud, “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”
____________ _________ _________ _________

To Whomever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner. I’m not even happy writing it. He knew something was different.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hoards them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet. Doesn’t
matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after them, so be careful. Don’t do it by any roads.

Next, commands. Reggie knows the obvious ones —”sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel.”

He knows hand signals, too: He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.

He’s up on his shots. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him in the car. I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time. It’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially.

And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you…His name’s not Reggie. He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt. But I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name. But if someone is reading this … well it means that his new owner should know his real name. His real name is “Tank.” Because, that is what I drive.

I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander. You see, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with .. and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one phone call to the shelter … in the “event” … to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily, my CO is a dog-guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word.

Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family. And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family, too, and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he
loved me.

If I have to give up Tank to keep those terrible people from coming to the US I am glad to have done so. He is my example of service and of love. I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough. I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the shelter. Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight – every night – from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory
____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure, I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver
Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

“Hey, Tank,” I said quietly.

The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

“C’mere boy.”

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months. “Tank,” I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my
face into his scruff and hugged him.

“It’s me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me.” Tank reached up and licked my cheek.

“So whatdaya say we play some ball?” His ears perked again.

“Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?”

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared into the next room. And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.

What Are Little Boys Made Of

 

Dr. Seuss Week

How much fun was Dr. Seuss week? I know we had a ton of fun with it at our house. Lane thought is was hilarious to be able to dress all silly for school each morning.

 

Monday was Silly Hat Day

Tuesday was Green From Head to Toe Day

Wednesday was Wacky Wednesday

Thursday was Silly Sock Day

Friday was Pajama Day

 

I have to say, I got a little worried when I dropped him off on Wacky Wednesday, when I didn’t see many kids wearing their wacky clothes. I saw a little apprehension on his face too when I was letting him off at school.  The look said “Mom, are you sure I’m supposed to be dressed this way?”  All was well though, when I picked him up he was all smiles. The teachers had on their wacky clothes, and many other kids did too.  He giggled this morning as he put his shoes on while still wearing his Spiderman jammies.  It’s good to be silly sometimes. :)

 

His ‘Wacky Wednesday’ outfit. The one boot and one shoe was his idea. :)

Just a dog…

Today, I heard a friend of mine lost her dog.  She had done everything to try and get him well. Countless sleepless nights and trip after trip to the vet.  Sometimes, though, nothing is enough.. God has other plans.  Those who aren’t ‘dog people’ or animal lovers just don’t understand the love we as humans have for our 4 legged friends and the love we get in return.  Anytime we decide to share our lives with an animal, we know that, chances are, we will be faced with having to say goodbye at some point.. and regardless of the heartbreak we feel when that time comes, the joy they bring to our lives in the short time they are on this earth makes it all worthwhile.

The unconditional love we get from our pet… they don’t care how much money you make, what you look like… all they care about is a belly rub and a kind word.  They would be happier with you on a cold street somewhere than by themselves in a mansion curled up by a fireplace.

Anytime I hear someone say “It was just a dog” I am reminded of Baxter Black and his thoughts on the matter.

 

I remember it like it was yesterday having to say goodbye to my Ladybug or “Bug” and “Buggers” as we affectionately called her.  It felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest… and that is no exaggeration. If you have never experienced it, then you don’t know… and if you have, then you know all too well.

Rest in peace my sweet girl… dogs most definitely will be in ‘my’ heaven too, Baxter.

A day at the ranch…

A few weeks ago we went for a long overdue visit to Uncle Ronnie’s ranch.  He invited us out to give Lane a little taste of ‘ranch life’.. and boy that’s all it took.  This little boy wants a ‘ranch’ now so bad he can hardly stand it.

 

Lane watching the horse get warmed up so he can ride.

Gotta hang tight to that hat!

Well, after riding for a while, Uncle Ronnie tells him that it’s not all about having fun…

you have to work too, if you’re going to be a real cowboy.

Feeding time!

And the horse stalls need cleaning…

He had entirely too much fun cleaning poop… goofy kid.

Overall, we had the best time! Like I said, it was a long overdue visit. This little boy has got it bad…. he went from only wanting a horse, to thinking he needs a couple of cows… a sheep… a pig… and a goat.  I would have to say, this Mama would be just fine with that.  Something about seeing him do all of these things just makes my heart smile.  The responsibility is teaches a child is priceless.  Now, we just have to convince Daddy… ;)

Love this…

There once was a woman with big perky breasts
Then cancer came and left a flat chest
Then chemotheraphy was what it’s about
And very soon her hair all fell out
Then doubt and self-pity turned into fear
And she couldn’t stand to look in the mirror
Then she looked and said “what the hell”
I don’t feel whole, I’m just a shell
Then anger sparked the will to fight
A war against cancer that had no right
There’s purpose in life with so much to do
To give in to cancer and just say I’m through
There is life to live and memories to make
Children to love and cookies to bake
So keep up the fight and never give in
This is your life you’re in it to win
Believe in yourself and encourage others
The wives, daughters, sisters and mothers
To all the women who have to endure
Don’t give up hope there will be a cure

Written by Rick Watson

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