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French Fries and Tornado Sirens

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I’m still.. at times… afraid of the dark. Once in a while I dip my french fries in my chocolate shake, because it tastes better that way.  Music is the one thing that soothes me when I’m angry, can make me cry when I least expect it, and can zap me to a distant place in time that was once long forgotten. Tornado sirens freak me out… seriously.. when the weather is bad, I need a babysitter.  I hate my hair.. no matter what I do, how it’s cut or colored.. I’m never happy with it.  I can be painfully shy at times.. and that’s often mistaken for snobbishness… It’s hard for me to allow myself to get close to anyone… only the select few I let into my ‘circle’ actually get to see the real me.  The sun rises and sets in my little boy’s eyes. He’s my world. I cuss entirely too often.  I’m culinarily challenged.  I sometimes laugh when I shouldn’t.  When I do laugh, there might even be an occasional snort. I’m a jack of all trades, but a master of none.  I have an addiction to sweet tea and chocolate and sometimes even enjoy them together.  I can be insecure, insensitive, and intolerant.  I love to make people laugh. I suffer from insane road rage… at least drive the speed limit people.. is that too much to ask?  I’m generous to a fault, but can be terribly selfish.  I’m a peace maker, fire putter outer, and smoother overer and sometimes even the glue.  I care what other people think.. probably more than I should.  I have OCD tendencies, striving for perfection.. when it isn’t even possible.  If I’m not good at something the first time I try, I get mad and want to quit.  It’s something I’m afraid I’ve passed on to my son… sadly, he shows all the signs.  I hate hearing my voice on a recording, it makes me cringe.  As bad as I hate to admit, I can be judgmental, but I’m working on it.  There are times I talk when I shouldn’t, or I’m quiet when I should speak and I have a knack for saying the most inappropriate thing at the most inappropriate times.. what can I say.. it’s a gift.  I fill out Christmas cards, but never mail them… no really.. it’s the thought that counts, right?  I get cranky when I’m tired.  I don’t handle stress well… I’m surprised I made it to 30 without suffering a stroke.  I can’t burp, my Mom can’t either, so I’m assuming it’s hereditary.  I care too much.. and then not enough. I own way too many bottles of nail polish.  I would consider a nose job, because I think mine is too big.  I have expensive taste.. and it’s a curse.  I am admittedly shallow and superficial at times and even a little petty.  I am a walking contradiction most of the time and can change my mind at the drop of a hat.. or before it even hits the floor.  I’m a germophobe… we go through a lot of soap in this house.  I don’t take compliments well.. brushing them off when I should just say “Thank you”.  Bad grammar rakes my nerves… Speaking of, I have way too many pet peeves.  So, I’m sure I’ll be adding to this more later.. but thought my ‘about me’ section could use a P.S.

 

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Where I’m From…

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A friend of mine… my sista from anotha mista, if you will, did a blog post that I absolutely loved.. so I thought I would give it a shot.  You can see her blog HERE.

 

I’m from the smell of fried chicken at Grandmother’s on a Sunday afternoon.

I’m from Shawnee Wolves Football on a Friday night.

I’m from peddling until your legs were sore, while riding bikes on washboard roads.

I’m from folded notes passed in hallways.

I’m from the sweet smell of fresh picked honeysuckle at Summertime.

I’m from friends you’ve had since birth because your parents have been friends just as long.

I’m from small towns with big dreams.

I’m from lightning bugs in mason jars because they make the best night lights.

I’m from late nights with best friends, and giggling while talking about boys.

I’m from cousins playing football in the yard after a great meal at Christmas.

I’m from 1 cent bubble gum at Ben Frankin’s.

I’m from graduating high school, thinking about how great it is.. only to realize you have no idea how good you had it.

I’m from cool breezes and driving down dirt roads.

I’m from Grandma’s amazing biscuits and gravy….. and her Coke Ham on Thanksgiving.

I’m from Bob’s Roll-A-Way Rink, skates with hot pink wheels, and band aids on blistered toes.

I’m from thinking you’re cool jamming to New Kids on the Block at Eufaula Lake, while working on a tan.

I’m from tractors on the ‘main’ roads.

I’m from “I love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck”.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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♬ Music… Food For My Soul ♬

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Anyone who knows me, also knows that music is and always has been a major part of my life.  My music ‘talents’ begin and end with me being able to play Hot Cross Buns on a recorder, and a little of Europe’s The Final Countdown and Motley Crue’s Home Sweet Home on the piano. (and that is only after a few “oops, I messed up, let me start over”)  Needless to say, I’m not musically inclined.. not even a little bit… but that’s beside the point.

Music can make you laugh.. it can make you cry like a baby.. out of the blue while driving down the road (true story, don’t judge).. it can instantly zap you back to an exact moment in time as if it were only yesterday.  It can make you cringe at a memory that you wish you could completely erase from your brain (again, true story… and if anyone knows what I’m speaking of.. shut up)… Music really is the soundtrack to life, in so many ways.

Any who… I always describe my taste in music as being a little on the Bi-Polar side… Ok, a lot on the Bi-Polar side.  Seriously, one playlist on my iPod has got Gym Class Heroes immediately followed by Johnny Lee’s Cherokee Fiddle.  I would be the one who would be rocking my Tony Lama boots with a Rolling Stones shirt, while blaring Snoop Dogg.

My husband Brock often get’s pop quizzed on the art of voice recognition and ‘name that tune’ while driving, or whenever the occasion arises.  Most of the time, he fails miserably.. but he’s getting better.. and that’s really all I can ask.. right?  He bears the brunt of my music obsession and he does so with a smile.. most of the time.  Although, I don’t know how much smiling he was doing when he was installing my new super way cool radio he bought me for my birthday… until 11:00 at night.  But he knew I couldn’t possibly be expected to wait until the weekend.. just staring at it sitting in the box.  I mean this thing does it all.. Plays my iPod.. my Sirius Radio.. CD’s… DVD’s.. and the regular radio.. but why in the heck would I need to listen to the regular NOT commercial free radio with all of my other options?  It truly was the best gift ever.  Definitely the gift that keeps on giving.

My son and nephew are already making me proud.

 

Proud Moment #1

A few weeks ago AC/DC came on the radio and Lane said “Mom, this is the song from Megamind.”  Actually, it wasn’t.. but there is an AC/DC song in Megamind, just a different song.  Point being, he recognized the fact that it was the same group because the two songs sound a lot alike..

Proud Moment #2

My 11 year old nephew Austin is already showing promise in the ‘voice recognition’ department.  The other day, my sister calls me and asks me if I had heard a song that was playing on the radio, because Austin thinks that Adam Levine (swoon) sings part of it.  Well, I hadn’t ever heard the song and much to my surprise he was right.  He identified him by voice alone.  I’m telling you, it made my heart swell with pride and almost brought a tear to my eye.  (not really, but it was still pretty cool)

I’m doing my best to see that I pass my appreciation for good tunes on to my child.

 

And they can both do a mean rendition of Moves Like Jagger that will have you rolling…

Lane showing his Jagger Moves…

 

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Bring on the Ewings!

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I have waited.. dreamed of… prayed for…. ok.. so I didn’t ‘pray’ for this day to come, that would be a little nutty.  Ok, so I’m kind of nutty.. but I promise, I didn’t involve the man upstairs with my Dallas obsession. Yes.. my Dallas obsession.  I am so excited about the premiere tonight.  Those of you who have read my previous blog post about Dallas, know that I was born this way.. so I can’t help it.  🙂

In celebration of the return of Dallas… I am posting a few favorite moments from the original Dallas over the years.

A video montage of some of J.R.’s finer moments…

Yep, J.R. is definitely one of those characters you love to hate.. but still one of my favorite Ewings.

The best fights…

Someone always goes in the pool….

 

 

And who doesn’t love some bloopers..

Dallas premieres tonight 8:00 on TNT! Woo Hoo!!!!

 

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Very touching story.. especially for dog lovers.

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(I don’t know if this is a true story.. doesn’t really matter to me either way. It’s too touching not to share)

They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes and a sealed letter from his previous owner.

See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too.
Maybe we were too much alike.

I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that. “Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud, “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”
____________ _________ _________ _________

To Whomever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner. I’m not even happy writing it. He knew something was different.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hoards them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet. Doesn’t
matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after them, so be careful. Don’t do it by any roads.

Next, commands. Reggie knows the obvious ones —“sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel.”

He knows hand signals, too: He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.

He’s up on his shots. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him in the car. I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time. It’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially.

And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you…His name’s not Reggie. He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt. But I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name. But if someone is reading this … well it means that his new owner should know his real name. His real name is “Tank.” Because, that is what I drive.

I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander. You see, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with .. and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one phone call to the shelter … in the “event” … to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily, my CO is a dog-guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word.

Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family. And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family, too, and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he
loved me.

If I have to give up Tank to keep those terrible people from coming to the US I am glad to have done so. He is my example of service and of love. I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough. I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the shelter. Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight – every night – from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory
____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure, I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver
Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

“Hey, Tank,” I said quietly.

The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

“C’mere boy.”

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months. “Tank,” I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my
face into his scruff and hugged him.

“It’s me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me.” Tank reached up and licked my cheek.

“So whatdaya say we play some ball?” His ears perked again.

“Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?”

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared into the next room. And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.

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Where were you?

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murrah before

 

FEDERAL BUILDING

April 19th, 1995 will forever be etched in the memories of millions who watched in horror.  It’s one of those moments in time where you will never forget where you were and what you were doing at the exact moment of hearing the news.  As I sit and watch the National Memorial television coverage today, all of the emotions from that day are instantly brought to the surface.

This isn’t suppose to happen here… and especially at the hands of one of our own.  It’s hard to even imagine that such evil exists.. but sadly it does.

I was sitting in Mr. Brown’s American History class, my Junior year of high school when a friend walking in with tears in her eyes telling us what had happened. Immediately televisions were rolled in to classrooms as we all sat silently watching in disbelief.  The rest of the day seems like a blur… but for me, that moment is one that I will never forget.

The following day.. my Mom, a friend of mine, and I went and volunteered for the Red Cross to help out in any way we could. I remember working in the make-shift supply building that they had set up to organize all of the supplies and donations that were pouring in.  It’s one thing to see it on television…. but it was a very different, chilling experience to see the mangled building live and in person.   I can still see the exhausted search and rescue workers covered in dust and debris… how brave each and every one were.. they are truly heroes.

It was an experience that changed me in a way that is really hard to describe…. it’s one of those times that you feel helpless, but also have the strong need to do something…. how ever small or insignificant it may seem at the time. Just something.  The most vivid memory for me that day wasn’t the sight of the destroyed building, believe it or not… it was when a fireman came to us and asked for all of the large black trash bags that we could find because they had run out of body bags.

It’s true what they say… “What doesn’t kill us, makes us stronger.”  Oklahoma was forever changed that day… 168 lives lost. Mothers, Fathers, Husbands, Wives, Sons, Daughters, Sisters, Brothers, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Friends… and all of those precious babies. God bless each and every one of you who lost loved ones, and God bless the search and rescue teams and volunteers.. the heroes from that day, and the many that followed…those who walked on 2 legs and the ones who walked on 4.

Never forget.

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I’m a ‘Dallas’ junkie… It’s ok, I was born this way.

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I chose the first picture they had with Jock, because any true Dallas fan knows that things just weren’t the same after he died.

 

Ok, most of the people who know me also know that I am a HUGE Dallas nerd. I grew up with J.R., Sue Ellen,  Bobby, Pam, Miss Ellie, Jock and the others who resided at or visited South Fork.  Before the days of VCRs or being able to DVR something, my Mom and Dad were found faithfully in front of our television on a Friday night awaiting the next hour of Ewing drama.  Seriously, we have a photo of when I was younger and Dallas is literally on the screen of our television in the background.

When we lived in Georgia, my Mom remembers that as soon as Dallas was over my Pa Pa would call and discuss J.R.’s latest underhanded, dirty dealings from that night’s episode.  It was just another way they stayed connected while living half way across the country from one another…. so when I say “I was born this way” – I really, truly was. 🙂

That all changed when Bobby died and then returned in the shower.. the whole ‘dream season’ ordeal.. yeah, that was the end of Dallas in our home.  My parents Dallas viewing kind of dwindled off after that because it became too much of a soap opera… like it wasn’t all along? 😉

When I was pregnant with my son, they were showing old Dallas reruns on Soap Net and that is when my love for Dallas was rekindled.  I now own all of the DVDs.  Yep, grade A nerd.  My son can even recognize the Dallas theme… I’m just doing my job… the tradition continues. 🙂

Soooo, imagine my SURPRISE and EXCITEMENT when they announced that Dallas was coming back to TNT this summer.  I absolutely cannot wait and I really hope it is as good as I would like it to be. I’m trying not to set my expectations too high… you know, don’t wanna set myself up for disappointment and all. 🙂  I know nothing will compare to my beloved original, but maybe they’ll do it justice. Either way, I’ll be watching.

 

The old…. They disabled embedding on the original opening credits.. so, this will have to work.

 

The new…

Did you get chills just watching it????? No? Oh, well…

 

I have to add that Lane came in here as I was adding these videos, and said “Hey, that’s Dallas!”  That’s my boy. 🙂

 

DALLAS PREMIERES ON TNT WEDNESDAY JUNE 13TH

Find my other post about Dallas HERE

 

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