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Very touching story.. especially for dog lovers.

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(I don’t know if this is a true story.. doesn’t really matter to me either way. It’s too touching not to share)

They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes and a sealed letter from his previous owner.

See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too.
Maybe we were too much alike.

I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that. “Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud, “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”
____________ _________ _________ _________

To Whomever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner. I’m not even happy writing it. He knew something was different.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hoards them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet. Doesn’t
matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after them, so be careful. Don’t do it by any roads.

Next, commands. Reggie knows the obvious ones —“sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel.”

He knows hand signals, too: He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.

He’s up on his shots. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him in the car. I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time. It’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially.

And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you…His name’s not Reggie. He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt. But I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name. But if someone is reading this … well it means that his new owner should know his real name. His real name is “Tank.” Because, that is what I drive.

I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander. You see, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with .. and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one phone call to the shelter … in the “event” … to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily, my CO is a dog-guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word.

Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family. And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family, too, and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he
loved me.

If I have to give up Tank to keep those terrible people from coming to the US I am glad to have done so. He is my example of service and of love. I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough. I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the shelter. Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight – every night – from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory
____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure, I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver
Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

“Hey, Tank,” I said quietly.

The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

“C’mere boy.”

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months. “Tank,” I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my
face into his scruff and hugged him.

“It’s me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me.” Tank reached up and licked my cheek.

“So whatdaya say we play some ball?” His ears perked again.

“Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?”

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared into the next room. And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.

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What Are Little Boys Made Of

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Dr. Seuss Week

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How much fun was Dr. Seuss week? I know we had a ton of fun with it at our house. Lane thought is was hilarious to be able to dress all silly for school each morning.

 

Monday was Silly Hat Day

Tuesday was Green From Head to Toe Day

Wednesday was Wacky Wednesday

Thursday was Silly Sock Day

Friday was Pajama Day

 

I have to say, I got a little worried when I dropped him off on Wacky Wednesday, when I didn’t see many kids wearing their wacky clothes. I saw a little apprehension on his face too when I was letting him off at school.  The look said “Mom, are you sure I’m supposed to be dressed this way?”  All was well though, when I picked him up he was all smiles. The teachers had on their wacky clothes, and many other kids did too.  He giggled this morning as he put his shoes on while still wearing his Spiderman jammies.  It’s good to be silly sometimes. 🙂

 

His ‘Wacky Wednesday’ outfit. The one boot and one shoe was his idea. 🙂

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Just a dog…

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Today, I heard a friend of mine lost her dog.  She had done everything to try and get him well. Countless sleepless nights and trip after trip to the vet.  Sometimes, though, nothing is enough.. God has other plans.  Those who aren’t ‘dog people’ or animal lovers just don’t understand the love we as humans have for our 4 legged friends and the love we get in return.  Anytime we decide to share our lives with an animal, we know that, chances are, we will be faced with having to say goodbye at some point.. and regardless of the heartbreak we feel when that time comes, the joy they bring to our lives in the short time they are on this earth makes it all worthwhile.

The unconditional love we get from our pet… they don’t care how much money you make, what you look like… all they care about is a belly rub and a kind word.  They would be happier with you on a cold street somewhere than by themselves in a mansion curled up by a fireplace.

Anytime I hear someone say “It was just a dog” I am reminded of Baxter Black and his thoughts on the matter.

 

I remember it like it was yesterday having to say goodbye to my Ladybug or “Bug” and “Buggers” as we affectionately called her.  It felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest… and that is no exaggeration. If you have never experienced it, then you don’t know… and if you have, then you know all too well.

Rest in peace my sweet girl… dogs most definitely will be in ‘my’ heaven too, Baxter.

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A day at the ranch…

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A few weeks ago we went for a long overdue visit to Uncle Ronnie’s ranch.  He invited us out to give Lane a little taste of ‘ranch life’.. and boy that’s all it took.  This little boy wants a ‘ranch’ now so bad he can hardly stand it.

 

Lane watching the horse get warmed up so he can ride.

Gotta hang tight to that hat!

Well, after riding for a while, Uncle Ronnie tells him that it’s not all about having fun…

you have to work too, if you’re going to be a real cowboy.

Feeding time!

And the horse stalls need cleaning…

He had entirely too much fun cleaning poop… goofy kid.

Overall, we had the best time! Like I said, it was a long overdue visit. This little boy has got it bad…. he went from only wanting a horse, to thinking he needs a couple of cows… a sheep… a pig… and a goat.  I would have to say, this Mama would be just fine with that.  Something about seeing him do all of these things just makes my heart smile.  The responsibility is teaches a child is priceless.  Now, we just have to convince Daddy… 😉

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One happy little boy…

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from left:  Mickey Andrews, Lane, and LJ Jenkins (PBR Pro Bull Rider)

Lane got to meet these guys today. He thought it was pretty cool.

Can you tell….?  I just love my little cowboy.

Kade Alberty and Mickey Andrews

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Love this…

Family

There once was a woman with big perky breasts
Then cancer came and left a flat chest
Then chemotheraphy was what it’s about
And very soon her hair all fell out
Then doubt and self-pity turned into fear
And she couldn’t stand to look in the mirror
Then she looked and said “what the hell”
I don’t feel whole, I’m just a shell
Then anger sparked the will to fight
A war against cancer that had no right
There’s purpose in life with so much to do
To give in to cancer and just say I’m through
There is life to live and memories to make
Children to love and cookies to bake
So keep up the fight and never give in
This is your life you’re in it to win
Believe in yourself and encourage others
The wives, daughters, sisters and mothers
To all the women who have to endure
Don’t give up hope there will be a cure

Written by Rick Watson

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